I went and did the kolbe test,..... it said I was one of the 10% that is in transition, and in fact we don't know what you are because you don't. They basically said start to figure that out, now. I feel almost disabled from it.... I always thought that I knew who and what I was and what my strengths were and was relatively successful but what I think was always the problem was that instead of listening to my instincts growing up and so on I was listening and following others because they knew the correct way of things, I learned everyone else's rules to fit in and survive and do what was expected of me. I think I was a chameleon. For sure I am in a transition part in my life with empty nesting, learning computers, creating an internet business, living in a new country and so on but I think that this is really bigger than that.
So instead of making this a sob story this is what I promise to me and to you: to give honest opinions even if they are wrong and maybe foolish, but they might be worthy enough to take that risk, to step forward anyway even if I am terrified, to cry when I need to, and try to act instead of react. It is so easy to fit in, rather than be yourself, I say this so easily to my kids and now I have to say this for me.